...that's why it was a little difficult to reconcile. If they didn't trust us, fine, but...

[logically, reasonably-- one person's suffering for one night doesn't outweigh saving additional lives. she likely would have done something very similar. but it's hard not to have an emotional reaction to it after the time she's spent trying to hold him together.]

I don't think it was easy for them, or necessarily intentional. It's just that so much could have been avoided.