Maybe you were, but you can only really know that for sure after the fact.

[it's the kind of thing that she can get, honestly, and with what she got from that memory about what his teacher did-- she really couldn't blame him for being worried about that at the time.]

In those circumstances it can be-- difficult to just put your trust in someone else's efforts and decisions, but I do think becoming able to do that is important, too. You said 'back then'?

[it sounds like there's been some improvement on that.]